F.A.Q.

I screen all first-time suitors and I do not accept references from dating agencies or masseuses. All references must come from independent companionship providers with an established web presence over 25. I do not accept references from agencies or massage providers. Not only for our mutual safety and peace of mind, but to ensure that our precious time together can be fully devoted to exploring the various aspects of our relationship. Mutual discretion is paramount. I never print or keep any records whatsoever after screening has been completed. If you are a new to this type of dating and you are reticent about giving me the necessary information to ensure mutual comfort during our first date, then I suggest you contact another companion. For those without references and/or who are not members of P411, I will accept one of the two methods listed below AFTER you have completed the contact form on my website. 1. Send a blank email from your work or university account (I do not respond, as your privacy is important to me). This email account must look similar to Mr.Gentleman@CoporateEntity.com. Or... 2. Cover up the address portion of your state issued ID with tape or a post-it. Your first and last name, DOB, EXP, Class, Lic# must remain visible. Take a picture holding this next to your face and text it to the number that I will provide. If this is something that you are uncomfortable doing, please consider someone else for dating.

Please have your gift in an envelope (if not paying in full electronically) in plain view upon my arrival. A nice discreet place is on the counter in plain sight if you are at my location, or the bathroom vanity if I am visiting yours. Please take the time to choose your experience and understand additional time requirements beforehand. Any questions can be handled via email before our date. ​ Payment of Deposit: If you wish to book a date with me, I require a deposit of $150 USD to secure and confirm experiences under 90 minutes. There are no exceptions even if we are well acquainted as life happens and this ensures that I am covered in the event you require a last minute cancellation. For all engagements 2 hours duration or longer, a 30% deposit is required to secure and confirm our date. All payments are securely and discreetly processed through a secure online/mobile payment processor. Electronic Patronage (preferred): I use trusted processors if you wish to take care of patronage in full before our meeting. Personally, this allows for the creation of more intimacy between us as everything is taken care of before our meeting. Statements reflect "Alexandria Carter". Pre-Booking: I cannot stress enough the importance of pre-booking when I have made a tour announcement. If I do not receive enough pre-bookings for a given city, I will cancel the tour and refund 100% of any deposits received. My word is bond and I would never risk my professional reputation by not refunding deposits. Cancellation Policy: Life often comes with various ups and downs and we find that plans must be canceled. If you must cancel our engagement, please give at least 7 days advance notice to receive a refund of your deposit. If you cannot give 7 days notice, your deposit can be applied toward a future meeting if you re-schedule within 21 days (3 weeks). ***FOR ALL LAST MINUTE CANCELLATIONS, THE DEPOSIT IS FORFEIT AND IS NOT APPLIED TO A FUTURE DATE. IF YOU WISH TO RE-BOOK AFTER A LAST MINUTE CANCELLATION, YOU MUST REMIT ANOTHER DEPOSIT*** Should I have to cancel our engagement for some unforeseen reason of my own, 100% of any deposit or full booking fees paid are refunded to you immediately. As previously stated, I would never risk my professional reputation by not refunding a deposit/booking fee. Note: For "Fly Me To You" dates you must cancel a full 30 days in advance to receive a full refund. Any cancellation that occurs in less than 30 days will receive a 40% refund. There is also the option to have deposits paid for FMTY dates applied to future date. The future date must take place within 90 days. Inquire via email if you wish to know more.

ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!! I do not engage with patrons who wish to use drugs during our time together. While I believe everyone is free to explore mind altering substances, it is not something I engage in professionally or in my personal life. If this is something you wish to experience, I am not the provider for you.

The most efficient way to connect with me is to complete the contact form on my site, or to text me directly if this is not our first time meeting. I respond to all forms contact within 24 hours. Emails from third party mailers or social media DMs have a longer response time as I do not check them as often so please be advised. It is in your best interest to text me DIRECTLY if you are seeking to meet same day and with short notice if we are already acquainted. Should you decide to text me to express your interest in setting up a date, please understand that I will respond within 3 hours as I do have other life obligations. ​ I will contact you via text 2 hours before our scheduled meeting time to direct you to my incall location or to receive directions if you have requested an outcall. Please keep phone usage to a minimum and relevant to appointment communication only. IMPORTANT: An inquiry without a paid deposit does not constitute a booking. If you wish to be added to my private calendar and to fully reserve your time slot, a deposit must be remitted. As a woman who values authentic connections, I also screen for personality and lifestyle compatibility. Please feel free to introduce yourself on my contact form and tell me why you think I am the right woman for you.

My biggest one is what I consider common sense: Hygiene! Particularly oral, body, and hand hygiene. Infectious disease and molecular immunology were the primary focus of my research interests and is still the focus of my professional interests. Microbial transmission and the etiology of various diseases is a highly fascinating subject...ONLY in journal publications and in a research lab. Cleanliness and fresh breath are not only healthy, they are sexy too! I prefer to date men between 35--200+. Gentlemen under 35 must be willing to provide detailed screening information in order to book a date with me. Understand that all information is securely viewed and fully deleted after screening is complete. I do not allow any type of photography or videos to be taken during our date as that constitutes a violation of my privacy, nor do I send photos via text or email. Request such as these will result in all contact being permanently terminated and you being blacklisted. Here is a blog post worth reviewing before we meet.

I absolutely do! If you would like to request me to travel to you for an incall (me booking a location and us meeting there), or an outcall (you hosting me) and it is within a 2 hour train ride or flight I will make it happen. I require a 30% deposit and all bookings must be at least 4 hours in length. Any travel over 2 hours is considered a true FMTY and must be 8 hours or longer and a 30% deposit is required.

If you are interested in giving or receiving a massage during our time together, let's allow for it to organically happen and allow space for natural touch to unfold. I am not a full body massage provider and you are better off booking a true massage therapist. I'm not good at it. **PLAY I DO NOT ENGAGE IN**: I am not a PSE provider and I do not offer Greek or any unsafe services (for reasons I elaborate on in this blog post). I do not engage in painful play and I AM NOT A SUBMISSIVE. I know that there are those that find these types of play exhilarating and fun and as long as everyone plays safe, I think we all should be allowed to enjoy our naturally inquisitive adult selves. For me personally, these things do not turn me on and when something is not a turn on it is no fun for either person involved. ACTIVITIES TO EXPLORE... I am open to exploring a variety of kinks and fetishes so long as they do not involve scat play, blood play, vomit, or harm to animals/others. Again, I personally am not into pain but if you are into **very light** painful play, I am game.

I understand one of the attractions and enticements of the adult dating world is the opportunity to meet new and exciting women from all over the world and as long as I've seen you within the last eight months, I am delighted to provide you with a character reference. For those that have not frequented ladies due to the pandemic, please be prepared to offer alternative methods for screening. ​ *Note to other ladies: the most efficient way to contact me for a reference is through e-mail.

I think it rather unfortunate that I even have to state this, but excluding someone based on race, gender/gender presentation, sexual orientation, ability status, or any other criteria is an unacceptable thing to do. I date anyone who approaches me respectfully, with kindness, and who respects my boundaries. Please let me know if you have any physical disabilities that require assistance so that we can discuss how I should accommodate you. As I often cook and serve beverages during our time together, please inform me of any food allergies if the date is to include dinner with your dessert!

Of course! I most definitely do, and I have written a blog post just for that! You can read more about that here.

I thoroughly enjoy choosing my own looks and styles. Not only is it one more way I can express my creativity, but I've never had a date express dissatisfaction with my fashion sense. When we first meet, I will be tastefully dressed. My wardrobe consists of Banana Republic business casual, Karen Millen of London and BCBG/Maxaria dresses as well as J Crew/Gap casual. Depending on where we are meeting and the time of day know that I will always be impeccably dressed and all smiles.