Both men and women have this fantasy quite a bit, but few actually act on it. Oftentimes, the major obstacle is in finding a third person to participate that you two as a couple can agree upon and finding someone who will not cause your primary relationship to implode. Also, you might want it for yourself, and finding two people is double the work.
Why try and pick up someone at a bar or on an app when you can simply hire a professional for the job? If you have made it to my site and find yourself reading this then you are in the right place. Let me give you a few more reasons to consider leaving this to the pros:
Reason #1:
We have ZERO desire to interfere in your personal life. Aside from screening for safety, we don't want to be involved with either of you--separately or together--outside of our mutually agreed upon tryst. While this may seem impersonal at first glance, it's SMART. Your goal as a couple should be to protect your primary relationship from outside interference, communicating honestly about desires, and make sexual decisions together. Why choose a random outsider when you can ensure your tryst goes EXACTLY how you and your partner want it to go? One or both of you might be nervous and we know how to create an atmosphere that calms nerves, creates intimacy, and allows everyone to turn on and have fun! It's our job.
Reason #2
We know what we are doing. I'm going to brag not so humbly here and say that I have never had an unhappy male or female partner and I am sure other companions can say the same. We are exceptional at what we do and we know it.
Reason #3
Safety. This one is dependent on the tier of companion that you choose to engage with. Yes, yes...people at all levels of society engage in drug use, are nutjobs, and say the quiet part outloud. But the key difference here is: A companion would not ruin his or her brand by engaging in unsafe acts or putting themselves or patrons in unsafe locations or situations. We live in a time where everything ends up on the internet and doing anything foolish as a companion puts one out of business quickly. Bad news travels fast. This is the reason for screening and certain boundaries companions have in place for setting up in-person experiences.
As with most things in life, you get what you pay for.
If you are still interested, head over to my Ménage À Trois post for additional details.