A Passion for Food & Cooking
I was taught from a very early age how to cook by the women that raised me--chiefly my maternal grandmother.
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- Mar 6, 2022
- 4 min
The Thing About Female Condoms
The female condom. Like them, love them, or absolutely hate them here's the deal with these not often seen/used contraceptive devices.
- Feb 20, 2022
- 5 min
The Subconscious Loneliness of Desire
American puritanism tends to stifle nonsexual touch in our everyday lives in a myriad of ways to the point that most of us are starving...
- Feb 6, 2022
- 2 min
The Wrongheadedness of "Penis Envy"
Why do you guys want a big dick? Seriously asking the question here because it seems to be a focus that spans the human male lifetime and is
- Jan 30, 2022
- 2 min
So You Think You Want A Threesome?
Both men and women have this fantasy quite a bit, but few actually act on it. Read more to find out why you should leave this to the pros.
- Sep 11, 2021
- 5 min
A Sugarbaby’s False Sense of Security
When a false sense of security leads to violent outcomes.
- Jun 8, 2020
- 1 min
Philosophy Tube | Sex Work Episode
This well worth the watch if you are interested in deepening your understanding of why sex work is work.
- May 4, 2020
- 9 min
The Apocalyptic End of Review Culture
**Note: I wrote this piece pre-SESTA/FOSTA on my old blog but I am reposting it here as I recently discovered a fake review...
- Apr 28, 2020
- 4 min
The Meet-and-Greet Wasteland
I officially said good-bye to attending companion meet and greets back in 2015. I recently received word that one would be hosted here.
- Apr 20, 2020
- 3 min
The Twitterverse of Sex Workers
In essence, he was saying that as long as I had other goals that I was actively working towards outside of sex work, he rationalized that..
- Oct 21, 2018
- 4 min
Religion and Sexuality
You seem to be a VERY open-minded person when it comes to religion and sexuality. Are you truly open-minded or are there things that you avo
- Mar 4, 2018
- 15 min
The Courtesan Aficionado
Q&A with two men who enjoy the company of paid adult companions. How they got started and why they continue to engage in the oldest prof
- Jan 5, 2018
- 3 min
The Proper Way to Book A Date
The importance of a proper introduction cannot be overstated. The results can vacillate from being well received leaving you both excited fo
- Jan 3, 2018
- 4 min
Pegging Preparation
Heterosexual men generally do not put much thought into what goes into preparing to receive anal penetration. It seems that many men think o
- Dec 18, 2017
- 2 min
12 Facts About Intimacy
10 surprising facts about intimacy that you might not have known before. Even a few surprised me as well.
- Dec 11, 2017
- 3 min
Polyamory Defined
In some sense, I have always been poly—my actions/speech/thoughts were always polyamorous in nature. I have always been a very difficult per
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