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Aug 193 min read
Unveiling the Nuances of a Plant-Based Lifestyle: Navigating the 'Are You Vegan?' Question
"I'm not vegan, but I follow a plant-based diet." This statement might feel like a tightrope walk between two dietary ideologies...
May 133 min read
The Rational Choice: Abstinence from Mind Altering Substances
While some individuals choose to engage in such activities, others, like myself, opt for abstinence.
Apr 23 min read
The Verdict: Money Does Indeed Buy Happiness
Gladly, the debate can finally end. MORE MONEY DOES IN FACT BUY MORE HAPPINESS! Those of us who have fought hard to die on this hill...
Oct 15, 20232 min read
Fleeting Thoughts
The myriad ways in which I can find myself lost in a crowd of people where everyone is Lord and Lady in their own saga is fascinating.
Aug 15, 20234 min read
A Passion for Food & Cooking
I was taught from a very early age how to cook by the women that raised me--chiefly my maternal grandmother.
Mar 6, 20224 min read
The Thing About Female Condoms
The female condom. Like them, love them, or absolutely hate them here's the deal with these not often seen/used contraceptive devices.
Feb 20, 20225 min read
The Subconscious Loneliness of Desire
American puritanism tends to stifle nonsexual touch in our everyday lives in a myriad of ways to the point that most of us are starving...
Feb 6, 20222 min read
The Wrongheadedness of "Penis Envy"
Why do you guys want a big dick? Seriously asking the question here because it seems to be a focus that spans the human male lifetime and is
Jan 30, 20222 min read
So You Think You Want A Threesome?
Both men and women have this fantasy quite a bit, but few actually act on it. Read more to find out why you should leave this to the pros.
Sep 11, 20215 min read
A Sugarbaby’s False Sense of Security
When a false sense of security leads to violent outcomes.
Jun 8, 20201 min read
Philosophy Tube | Sex Work Episode
This well worth the watch if you are interested in deepening your understanding of why sex work is work.
May 4, 20209 min read
The Apocalyptic End of Review Culture
**Note: I wrote this piece pre-SESTA/FOSTA on my old blog but I am reposting it here as I recently discovered a fake review...
Apr 28, 20204 min read
The Meet-and-Greet Wasteland
I officially said good-bye to attending companion meet and greets back in 2015. I recently received word that one would be hosted here.
Apr 20, 20203 min read
The Twitterverse of Sex Workers
In essence, he was saying that as long as I had other goals that I was actively working towards outside of sex work, he rationalized that..
Oct 21, 20184 min read
Religion and Sexuality
You seem to be a VERY open-minded person when it comes to religion and sexuality. Are you truly open-minded or are there things that you avo
Mar 4, 201815 min read
The Courtesan Aficionado
Q&A with two men who enjoy the company of paid adult companions. How they got started and why they continue to engage in the oldest prof
Jan 5, 20183 min read
The Proper Way to Book A Date
The importance of a proper introduction cannot be overstated. The results can vacillate from being well received leaving you both excited fo
Jan 3, 20184 min read
Pegging Preparation
Heterosexual men generally do not put much thought into what goes into preparing to receive anal penetration. It seems that many men think o
Dec 18, 20172 min read
12 Facts About Intimacy
10 surprising facts about intimacy that you might not have known before. Even a few surprised me as well.
Dec 11, 20173 min read
Polyamory Defined
In some sense, I have always been poly—my actions/speech/thoughts were always polyamorous in nature. I have always been a very difficult per
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