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Abstinence from Mind Altering Substances
While some individuals choose to engage in such activities, others, like myself, opt for abstinence.
May 13, 20243 min read


The Verdict: Money Does Indeed Buy Happiness
Gladly, the debate can finally end. MORE MONEY DOES IN FACT BUY MORE HAPPINESS! Those of us who have fought hard to die on this hill...
Apr 2, 20243 min read


Fleeting Thoughts
The myriad ways in which I can find myself lost in a crowd of people where everyone is Lord and Lady in their own saga is fascinating.
Oct 15, 20232 min read


A Passion for Food & Cooking
I was taught from a very early age how to cook by the women that raised me--chiefly my maternal grandmother.
Aug 15, 20234 min read


The Thing About Female Condoms
The female condom. Like them, love them, or absolutely hate them here's the deal with these not often seen/used contraceptive devices.
Mar 6, 20224 min read


The Subconscious Loneliness of Desire
American puritanism tends to stifle nonsexual touch in our everyday lives in a myriad of ways to the point that most of us are starving...
Feb 20, 20225 min read


Penis Envy
Why do you guys want a big dick? Seriously asking the question here because it seems to be a focus that spans the human male lifetime and is
Feb 6, 20222 min read


So You Think You Want A Threesome?
Both men and women have this fantasy quite a bit, but few actually act on it. Read more to find out why you should leave this to the pros.
Jan 30, 20222 min read


A Sugarbaby’s False Sense of Security
When a false sense of security leads to violent outcomes.
Sep 11, 20215 min read


Philosophy Tube | Sex Work Episode
This well worth the watch if you are interested in deepening your understanding of why sex work is work.
Jun 8, 20201 min read


The Apocalyptic End of Review Culture
**Note: I wrote this piece pre-SESTA/FOSTA on my old blog but I am reposting it here as I recently discovered a fake review...
May 4, 20209 min read


The Meet-and-Greet Wasteland
I officially said good-bye to attending companion meet and greets back in 2015. I recently received word that one would be hosted here.
Apr 28, 20204 min read


The Twitterverse of Sex Workers
In essence, he was saying that as long as I had other goals that I was actively working towards outside of sex work, he rationalized that..
Apr 20, 20203 min read


Religion and Sexuality
You seem to be a VERY open-minded person when it comes to religion and sexuality. Are you truly open-minded or are there things that you avo
Oct 21, 20184 min read


The Courtesan Aficionado
Q&A with two men who enjoy the company of paid adult companions. How they got started and why they continue to engage in the oldest prof
Mar 4, 201814 min read


The Proper Way to Book A Date
The importance of a proper introduction cannot be overstated. The results can vacillate from being well received leaving you both excited fo
Jan 5, 20183 min read


Pegging Preparation
Heterosexual men generally do not put much thought into what goes into preparing to receive anal penetration. It seems that many men think o
Jan 3, 20184 min read


12 Facts About Intimacy
10 surprising facts about intimacy that you might not have known before. Even a few surprised me as well.
Dec 18, 20172 min read


Polyamory Defined
In some sense, I have always been poly—my actions/speech/thoughts were always polyamorous in nature. I have always been a very difficult per
Dec 11, 20173 min read
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